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Pros: 

This is it. This is my book of the year. I've had it on my TBR since it came out, but I just now picked it up. Now, I wish I would've read it earlier. 

To be frank in this review, as I always am, I had some concerns about this book. I feared it would turn out to be a purely political work focused on feminism and women’s empowerment. Don’t misunderstand me—I believe in equal rights for everyone, not just a select few. But when I pick up a book, I want an escape from reality and all my adult duties.  Thankfully, it wasn’t a political book, and I found that this story touched on many themes close to my heart: yearning for more, striving for something different, and longing for change.   

This book presents four perspectives, but the narrative remains clear. All women are married; three have children, one does not (no spoilers). Margaret forms the group, and Charlotte's arrival brings energy. The ladies read The Feminine Mystique, a pivotal text for the 60s and 70s feminist movement. While its impact feels less dramatic today, it's important to understand its historical significance. Some scenes, such as Margaret's bank experience, were frustrating for me as a married woman, but I won't reveal any spoilers.  

What makes this particularly interesting—and refreshingly non-political—are the perspectives shared by the book’s female readers. Three are in their mid-to-late thirties and one is in her twenties, while I’m in my late forties and married, which matters to what comes next. At some point, each character reaches a turning point—a 'moment'. I experienced this myself in my late thirties: that sense of feeling stuck, whether at home, at work, or just in life. You’re not sure how to move forward; you simply feel trapped. This is where I really appreciate the author’s storytelling, as she guides every character toward their own unique journey. I also commend her for avoiding politics and respecting housewife and stay-at-home mom roles.

I would like to share my perspective: I chose not to have children and instead pursued a professional career. However, I hold deep respect for individuals who dedicate themselves to raising families at home. This role is demanding and often underappreciated. I highly recommend this book; it would be an excellent choice for a book club.

Bonus Pro:

At the end of the book Marie Bostwick, the author, pens a letter to the readers. It brought me to tears to hear the sincerity and kindness in her words. It tied the book perfectly together. 

Cons: 

I have no cons for this book.